Mother or Monster?

Again and again in medieval literature we find constant criticism towards the mothers/queens for a variety of reasons. She’s too bitchy, she chose the wrong child to rule, she is way too involved in her kid’s life, she’s overbearing, etc. The endless judgement from medieval audiences and readers today leads us to ask ourselves, “Are these women really what we say they are, or are they trying their best to survive and provide for themselves and their children in the medieval period?”

The character of Cersei in “A Game of Thrones” faces a lot of negativity from other characters, readers, and viewers. Many people see her as an evil, overbearing, bitchy woman. But if we really look at her situation can we honestly blame her for her actions? Yes if you view it from a strictly moral perspective she is not the best; murder, sleeping with her brother, illegitimate children, etc. But look at her life, she was married off to a man she did not know and the people that surround her definitely are not interested in anyone’s wellbeing other than their own. The saying “adapt, improvise, and overcome” definitely applies to Cersei’s situation because that’s exactly what she had to do to survive and provide for her children.

In “Encomium Emmae Reginae”, Queen Emma’s life takes a sad turn when her children begin to fight amongst themselves for the kingdom and she is caught in the middle because of her previous choice between her children as to who would rule after the death of her husband. When she chose one child over another to rule at the time she most likely thought that she was making the right decision, how was she to know that the not chosen kid would come back and enact revenge on her? Like Cersei, Emma was married off to not one but two men she did not know and was then thrust into motherhood and queendom. I think we can all agree that having to choose a king from between your children is not the easiest decision and sadly it did not turn out that well in her favor. The choices she made in “Encomium Emmae Reginae” from an outside perspective may not appear to have been the greatest but it seems like she did the best she could with what she had.

While I was coming up with the ideas for this blog I intended on including the mother Donegild from the “Man of Law’s Tale” and the BBC version. But as I was trying to rationalize the actions of the mother in the actual Canterbury Tales version I really could not find a good reason for her actions besides her being a cruel woman who hated Christians. In the BBC version it is easier to see the mother’s point of view because she saw what happened with Constance and her son; the murder trial and all the red tape of getting her to stay there in the UK. As screwed up as it was to lie to Custance like that it’s understandable that the mom thought she was doing the right thing for her son at the time. So in the BBC version I can see the point of view of the mother, but in the original “Man of Law’s Tale” Donegild just seems pretty crappy. 

I couldn't find a photo of Donegild so this is how I imagined her